Conflict On This Board

[katfight]

I know what I did is wrong and no matter how crazy my wife drives me i should not have been doing them. I honestly just did it, and honestly enjoyed it. What I did will just add more problems to what we already had. i know this and now although I fear having to tell her i know I must.

Notice I deleted the rest because it's all wa wa wa - sook sook sook - cry cry cry. Man the F up!

Leave it at the last paragraph and people wouldn't be so disgusted by you Julius.

You want everyone to think you're a great guy again - start behaving like one - forget the excuses - and take some positive action.

You should work in marriage guidance Sharla, such a lovely gentle manner

Seriously if you can get so angry about a situation that has nothing to do with you to the point that it makes you completely cold towards Julius don't you think it's just possible that him actually living 24/7 in a loveless marriage might just make him feel cold towards her and vice versa?

If you can't show any compassion to a young lad who obviously married too soon pouring his heart out in a forum then how do you think you'd have any more compassion and love for someone you were stuck with who in that moment you felt only anger towards?

Rains has feelings and emotions just like any of you, as does his wife. People make mistakes, people fall out of love, people even end up having affairs when a relationship goes sour.

It's part of life, nobody is perfect, we all make mistakes and we all do things that are wrong.

bilbo wtf?
he married to young?
does that give him the right to fuck owt that moves?
no
you,ve written as does his wife have feelings

well he obviously didnt give a shit about that each time he fucked new woman safe in the knowledge good little wifey would be at home cleaning or out making money

we all do make mistakes yes but then wen u go around telling ppl bragging or not u have to deal with conciquences and effect
then he goes on to whinge and whine wen real men tell of thier disgust at wat he's done with the oh ur life is so perfect bullshit
we all have shitty parts in our lives including private personal lives but that dont send us all of practising unprotected sex with virtual strangers

some ppl's morals are different to others
but adultry?
the fucking wrecks lives and destroys familys
it scars for life as Rains will have to learn if his bit on side is pregnant
and if she isnt then i hope to god that is enough of a scare for him to keep his dick in his pants

and julius if u feel like u h8 ur wife u need councilling 2gether or them feelings will fester
i applaud ur honesty on how u feel but the fact u cheated just pisses me off and obviously sharla
you aint the first u wont be the last but that dont make it right

u are saying i know i fucked up i knows im wrong
but ya gonna find out there is no point shutting the gate once the horse has bolted
in other words u should have thought about that b4 u did it again and again