Snakey, we're pretty much the same age as I mentioned earlier, I guess the difference is I went through what you're going through at an earlier age. It hurts like hell, but it happens all of us at one stage or another.

Listen mate, you do actually care about the girl, but what sort of a relationship is it if you have to use "weapons" against each other?

If you've broken up after a year, no matter how good the year was there's something wrong. I really don't want to be the bearer of bad news snakey, but the fact is that maybe she felt trapped. She felt that you're not the one she'd be with forever, she loved you but not in a permanent way.

All I'm saying is man, you've got to guard yourself from getting hurt more and be mature enough not to hurt her in return.
Thats going to be a tough task in itself.