Hmm.
No, she's okay really. We talked a lot yesterday. She seems to have found a new company position that pays almost as much as what I earn. I am impressed, but feel a little threatened. Still, at least my vacation is much more and this undersized apartment comes with the job too. Anything to make me feel more manly.
It seems a lot of our problems have also stemmed from her insecurities about not finding good work here and being frustrated about being unable to work. She has kind of lashed out at me a little bit as she gave up her settled previous job to relocate. So yeah, I was noisy one night and we had a fight and then a couple more, but she admits that she has been a bit cruel to me too. I agree that it's not cool to relocate and earn 40% less.
At finding a job, she has perked up no end. It also destroys Hornfingers notion that all women are prostitutes. Many want to earn money in legit ways just like men, to invest and secure their future and the future of their families. A prostitute would leech off of me year in year out, but my wife has never done that. What we have in assets is about half in her name and she has probably earned it.
Now we could venture into the notion that working 'for the man' is prostitution. But then that would make all men prostitutes too and likely Hornfinger too as well. I don't think that is a correct way of thinking.


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