Temptation.

[Violent Demise]

Regarding your problem Ice, I think you just have to decide what is more important to you. Do you want to run around and knock boots with a bunch of different woman or do you want to stay with your wife.

You can still be a good father and not be with the mother of your child, and if you don't want to be married it's probably best for everyone if you're not. However, if your family life and marriage are more important to you, then you have to resist temptation as best you can and stay together.

If that's what you want to do, then maybe you should talk to your wife and find different ways to keep your sex life interesting so thoughts of straying won't be as powerful.

Just my $0.02 on the situation. Good luck.

At his age marriage should be the last thing on his mind. What's wrong with you muthafukkas giving the boy such bad advice? You just setting him up to fail by telling him to stay with his wife. He ain't ready for that shit. No matter how much he tries to convince himself he is. Boy needs to be out and about

[Snakey]

Regarding your problem Ice, I think you just have to decide what is more important to you. Do you want to run around and knock boots with a bunch of different woman or do you want to stay with your wife.

You can still be a good father and not be with the mother of your child, and if you don't want to be married it's probably best for everyone if you're not. However, if your family life and marriage are more important to you, then you have to resist temptation as best you can and stay together.

If that's what you want to do, then maybe you should talk to your wife and find different ways to keep your sex life interesting so thoughts of straying won't be as powerful.

Just my $0.02 on the situation. Good luck.

At his age marriage should be the last thing on his mind. What's wrong with you muthafukkas giving the boy such bad advice? You just setting him up to fail by telling him to stay with his wife. He ain't ready for that shit. No matter how much he tries to convince himself he is. Boy needs to be out and about

No doubt he should be out enjoying himself and rooting chicks left right and centre, definitely agree with ya on that. I know heaps of guys my age who are already engaged or tied down in some way and its just horrible to watch them do that to themselves. BUT Ice got his mrs pregnant and now has responsibilities so he needs to be a man and live up to them. He fucked over his chance of freedom so he cant take that out on his mrs and child, why should they suffer coz he cant keep his dick in his pants?

Ice you have already cheated on her by hooking up with this gym chick so you really need to look at yourself and decide whether all of this is worth hurting people who love you.

[Spicoli]

Yeh.All bets are off once you have child.All the living done is for them firstly...you second.Like I said,if it's a question and temptation this early in ask what it's founded on.Come to terms and discuss with her.Good to catch it early less you prolong the enevitable and give him/her a lifetime of bad memories and spats between you both.Who here believes in 'staying together for sake of child'?What does that really mean and does it really ease their pain.

[Violent Demise]

Regarding your problem Ice, I think you just have to decide what is more important to you. Do you want to run around and knock boots with a bunch of different woman or do you want to stay with your wife.

You can still be a good father and not be with the mother of your child, and if you don't want to be married it's probably best for everyone if you're not. However, if your family life and marriage are more important to you, then you have to resist temptation as best you can and stay together.

If that's what you want to do, then maybe you should talk to your wife and find different ways to keep your sex life interesting so thoughts of straying won't be as powerful.

Just my $0.02 on the situation. Good luck.

At his age marriage should be the last thing on his mind. What's wrong with you muthafukkas giving the boy such bad advice? You just setting him up to fail by telling him to stay with his wife. He ain't ready for that shit. No matter how much he tries to convince himself he is. Boy needs to be out and about

No doubt he should be out enjoying himself and rooting chicks left right and centre, definitely agree with ya on that. I know heaps of guys my age who are already engaged or tied down in some way and its just horrible to watch them do that to themselves. BUT Ice got his mrs pregnant and now has responsibilities so he needs to be a man and live up to them. He fucked over his chance of freedom so he cant take that out on his mrs and child, why should they suffer coz he cant keep his dick in his pants?

Ice you have already cheated on her by hooking up with this gym chick so you really need to look at yourself and decide whether all of this is worth hurting people who love you.

Ice don't owe his girl a damn thing. He owes the kid. He don't gotta stay in a situation he really ain't liking just cuz he got a kid. He can still provide for the kid and be a male whore at the same time. I agree 100% Ice needs to do right by his kid. I'll go over there and beat his ass myself if he doesn't. But that's all he owes. He owes his kid. Not his girl.

[amat]

Yea but VD Ice is a puritan, his girl helped him through tough times and shit, he was slangin playstation games and she was on the corner with the xbox ones. He should be above this. I can't believe he thinks a girl at the gym is hot, it goes pretty much against everything he has ever said on here.

[CFH]

Regarding your problem Ice, I think you just have to decide what is more important to you. Do you want to run around and knock boots with a bunch of different woman or do you want to stay with your wife.

You can still be a good father and not be with the mother of your child, and if you don't want to be married it's probably best for everyone if you're not. However, if your family life and marriage are more important to you, then you have to resist temptation as best you can and stay together.

If that's what you want to do, then maybe you should talk to your wife and find different ways to keep your sex life interesting so thoughts of straying won't be as powerful.

Just my $0.02 on the situation. Good luck.

At his age marriage should be the last thing on his mind. What's wrong with you muthafukkas giving the boy such bad advice? You just setting him up to fail by telling him to stay with his wife. He ain't ready for that shit. No matter how much he tries to convince himself he is. Boy needs to be out and about

That may be true, but it doesn't mean jack shit now because he's already married and he has a child. That changes things. It's not as simple as just being out and about.

I wasn't telling him to stay with his wife necessarily, I don't know enough about his situation to do that. I was telling him that he has to make a decision, which he does. He can stay with his wife and continue with the way things are or he can leave her and run around getting his dick wet. It's as simple as that.

[Lefty]

I'm sure Violent Demise would be proud of me. I've learnt after my last episode I shouldnt be worrying about what a girl is doing, why she aint texting, she sucking another lads dikk behind my back. As long as there letting me fukk them thats all I need. I now look at most girls in this way, not giving a fukk because of the heartache with the last biitch I was with. I'm not going to get too invovlved with them, im only 18 years old. It aint worth the stress and the hassle.

[Violent Demise]

I'm sure Violent Demise would be proud of me. I've learnt after my last episode I shouldnt be worrying about what a girl is doing, why she aint texting, she sucking another lads dikk behind my back. As long as there letting me fukk them thats all I need. I now look at most girls in this way, not giving a fukk because of the heartache with the last biitch I was with. I'm not going to get too invovlved with them, im only 18 years old. It aint worth the stress and the hassle.

Good. Brings a tear to my eye knowing your on the right path

[Kev]

When did Ice get married This thread is escalating to silliness now! Next he'll be accused of abandoning his girlfriend/wife leaving her to cope with a major illness alone, or he'll be out fucking whilst her and the child are made homeless and have to go into a shelter together....

[ICB]

I don't know what to make of this, but i just dreamt about that girl. And i dreamt i was happy with her because shes such a sweet/nice girl. And everytime i think about her, i get that feeling in my stomach. I thought it'd be easy to forget but it isn't, i don't know if thats a sign or ETC.

[amat]

Does she know you exist Ice?

[CFH]

I don't know what to make of this, but i just dreamt about that girl. And i dreamt i was happy with her because shes such a sweet/nice girl. And everytime i think about her, i get that feeling in my stomach. I thought it'd be easy to forget but it isn't, i don't know if thats a sign or ETC.

There are no such things as "signs" man, you're just dreaming about her because she has been on your mind a lot.

[Violent Demise]

I don't know what to make of this, but i just dreamt about that girl. And i dreamt i was happy with her because shes such a sweet/nice girl. And everytime i think about her, i get that feeling in my stomach. I thought it'd be easy to forget but it isn't, i don't know if thats a sign or ETC.

Your talking about the same damn girl ain't you? I gave you instructions on what to do like 3 weeks ago. Why is she still relevant? You should of been forgot her name already. This is the type of things that happen to someone that asks for advice, yet ignores the best advice given to him. You must like misery. Lets look at the difference of you following and not following Dr. Demise advice

Ice following:

Ice has sex with gym girl. Doing whatever he pleases. Ice goes home and is nice to the wife and kid. Pretending there's nobody else he rather be around than them. Ice wife buys the shameful but necessary charade and everything is nice and dandy at home. Ice identity as a loving husband and father has now been established. Ice goes to the gym next day and realizes he don't really care if gym girl talks to him or not. Ice now has his eye on the just turned 18 girl working the snack bar

Ice not following:

Ice normal, routine changes. He's now hesitant to go to the gym. When he does go he can't work out like he use to cuz his erection is getting in the way. Ice looks at girl wishing he can have her. But lame, misguided morals won't let him. Ice goes home to wife and kid. House is a mess. Kid is crying. Wife dressed like she 48 years old. "This is it" is running through Ice's head. Kid crying wakes him up from his nap in which gym girl was about to perform oral sex on him. Ice thinks about her and gets feeling in his stomach.

[JazMerkin]

I don't know what to make of this, but i just dreamt about that girl(1). And i dreamt i was happy with her because shes such a sweet/nice girl (2). And everytime i think about her, i get that feeling in my stomach (3). I thought it'd be easy to forget but it isn't, i don't know if thats a sign or ET(4).

1. Don't make anything of it. It means absolutely fuck all. I always dream about girls I wanna fuck. Sometimes I'll dream about girls I don't wanna fuck, but I'll wake up and feel like fucking them. But, it don't mean shit, if you wanna bust one on her, go do it, but don't think a dream is any kind of basis for leaving your current girlfriend.

2. You dreamt you were 'happy with her because she's such a sweet/nice girl'? What kind of happy are we talking here? Happy like you were imagining her gagging on lil' ICB? Or happy in that kind of gay way where you imagined sitting in the park & talking about shit? Because if it's the second one, your subconscious is fucking you over man.

3. What like you need to take a shit? That's not a desired reaction b, unless she works in a kebab shop & its a kind of mental reminder to clear your bowels for another doner so you can head & try draw some tings off her.

4. A sign or ETC? You need to stop using etc so loosely. It means 'and other things' or 'and so on'. Your sentence makes absolutely no sense with that on the end. Just say a sign, then a question mark. Also like I said in #1, no its not 'a sign', your dreams mean absolutely fuck all, they are no basis to make important life decisions on.

Basically Ice it boils down to this. If you're gonna fuck around and you think you can avoid feeling guilty and getting caught, then go do it. If you think you'd feel too guilty or can't keep up the lie, then make a decision to either stay with your current girl and don't obsess over this next chick, or break up with her and go empty testes on this other bird's hair, face, tits etc (see Ice - THAT is how you use etc).