Yeh.All bets are off once you have child.All the living done is for them firstly...you second.Like I said,if it's a question and temptation this early in ask what it's founded on.Come to terms and discuss with her.Good to catch it early less you prolong the enevitable and give him/her a lifetime of bad memories and spats between you both.Who here believes in 'staying together for sake of child'?What does that really mean and does it really ease their pain.