Quote Originally Posted by miles View Post
Quote Originally Posted by KKisser View Post
if only she's a member of a forum like you miles then you can read what her issues really are.

communication is one of the more important elements of a relationship and in your case it seems to have bogged down.
I agree. I've tried talking but it gets nowhere and quickly degenerates. Maybe she needs her space. After a fight I am always able to get my mood back together within minutes. She on the other hand will sulk and barely speak for a number of days.

I've had enough of trying though and will just continue to live life. If she has all these issues then she needs to deal with them. She knew who I was when she married me and if that's not good enough then that's her call. I'm not the one trying to make random changes or up and leave anywhere. She can bugger off to England for all I care right now. I would quite like the space and peace. I don't think I even like her at this point in time. I'm just sick of it.

I'm going to stop talking about it as I think I've said all I need to say. This thread has been good for a bit of venting, but it's time to be more constructive. I might start a thread highlighting all the reasons why I hate Amir Khan or something. Something useful.
My views on women and relationships has always been that of a man and his car. After taking that car out of the showroom and owning it for a few years, you will notice that the car starts having problems, it may be because of the mileage, the overuse of the engine, the paint starts fading, a lot of headaches trying to fix the problems, and you may notice that other cars/models looks much better and you want to upgrade to something else.

In other words, let her work in England and maybe she finds another English guy more to her liking in terms of wealth, status, and financial security for herself. While you on the other hand starts eyeing that cute 22 year old Korean chick that has graduated from university and is starting her career and is open to dating a more mature man that is in his early 30s and might be more compatible to you in terms of personality, plus hey it's new punani.

It's a win-win for all I say. So trade in that used car for a newer model. Hey just some VDesque advice.